Thoughts to you from yours truly - ( 38 ) - November 10, 2010

Thoughts to You from Yours Truly ( TYYT ) - ( 38 ) - Love and Commitment ( 愛情與承諾 ) - Nov., 10, 2010

True love must entail commitment. However, there is a nasty catch here. Being fully committed also means being fully exposed to the risk of trauma from betrayal. To be totally committed and enjoy perfect love or to withhold commitment and be safe. It is , indeed, a very mind boggling personal call. Personally, I am a risk taker at heart. I totally agree with what Shakespeare said :- " It is better to have loved and lost, than not to have loved at all ! "

真愛必定包含承諾，但承諾卻蘊藏着一種可怕的危機。付出了絕對的承諾, 亦意味到可以受到絕對的傷害。應該以絕對承諾換取完美的愛情，還是獨善其身以保安全呢？這真是個令人費盡思量的個人抉擇。以我個人而言，在內心我是個風險承受者。我完全同意莎士比亞所說:「曾經愛過而失戀，比從沒有愛過更好！」

JKHC.